The main commentary that followed was “folks need to stay off of those
online dating sites, crazy folks are on those things!” Ok, so, my question is, where do y’all think
the folks come from who are on the online dating sites? Another planet? No,
they are the same folks you meet when at the grocery stores, clubs,
church, etc…heck, some are living in the same home YOU live in!! * Having participated in online dating, I know for a fact, there are MANY married men
online, creeping. But I won’t go into
that right now but do stay tuned! …lol…
My point for this post is to say, there are crazy folks
everywhere... online, at the store, at the gas station, etc.. Stop acting as if these online communities
don’t exist outside of the virtual world.
Yeah, there is a larger pool of people in one space online therefore,
there is more of a chance you will run into the “crazy ones” but I can
guarantee you, 4 out of the 5 guys/girls you meet “out there” are online as
well!
There are rules for online dating given the fact
you are only seeing what a person wants you to see online. *I will get back with those also! And yes, you have the folks who post old or
blurred pictures in an effort to deceive and their personal description of their
personality may be a bit skewed from reality but, in my opinion, the trade-off
of gaining a larger pool of potentials, may be worth the extra diligence
required for this type of dating and meeting new people.
If online dating is not for you, great, don't use it. Or if you have a weaker sense of discernment, has extremely low self-esteem, nope, don't even go on there. But stop bashing the idea with the excuse of "crazy" folks being there because, trust me, they are everywhere!
My questions to you: 1. Have you ever tried online dating? 2. What is your opinion on this concept of
meeting folks for dating purposes?
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