Sunday, August 30, 2015

Just....Be Still


     Sometimes we just need to be still….  When you are in a space of frustration, anger, or disappointment and your thoughts are all over the place, be still.  It’s normal to want instant revenge or want someone to JUST UNDERSTAND, …it truly is.  The “I need him/her to know , that I know, that he knows” is an endless battle.  Why?  Because any person with half an ounce of intelligence ALREADY knows when he/she is behaving badly…your attempts at proving it is a waste of your energy.  
     I can remember wanting so badly to shout out to the world my innocence in a situation, only to realize it wouldn’t have mattered anyway.  I am who I am.  When someone chooses to believe and spread negative information, that speaks on THAT person and what’s going on with him/her, it’s not about you.    
     So, what do you do?  Take a deep breath….and be still.  The universe has a way of working things out.  And you won’t have to spend even a millisecond of your precious time here on negative thoughts and/or deeds.  Sometimes this can be hard but you can get through it…trust me on this one.  Your mind and spirit will be better for it!

Wednesday, August 26, 2015

"Nice" Guys Finishing Last... or Are They Not Really That Nice?

     They say that nice guys finish last becasue there are some women out there making the statement "he was too nice" or something similar to that effect. Folks get upset when this is said but are these women really talking about truly "nice' guys or are they simply using the (wrong) word "nice" to describe "wimpy" or "spineless" guys? Guys with no leadership? Can they truly be saying I don't want a guy who treats me well? hmmm....
 
     Well, all I know is, when I meet an adamant self-proclaimed "nice guy", he usually has multiple issues with asserting authority,  having accountability, lacks leadership, has major stalker potential, and other traits that makes females proceed with extreme caution and/or not at all. 
 
What do you think?  Am I wrong on this one??